When it comes to weddings, every detail matters—from the venue to the vows to the accessories you wear. Jewellery, in particular, plays a big role in completing a polished wedding look. But with so many traditions, personal styles, and dress codes, how do you know what’s appropriate? Whether you’re the bride, groom, a bridesmaid, or a guest, here’s your guide to jewellery etiquette for weddings.
For the Bride
1. Complement Your Dress
Your jewellery should enhance, not overpower, your gown. Let the neckline and embellishments guide your choices.
Tip: If your dress is heavily detailed, go for simpler pieces. If it’s minimal, you can introduce bolder accessories.
2. Don’t Overdo It
Stick to one or two standout pieces—such as statement earrings or a sparkling necklace—to maintain a refined look.
3. Heirlooms Are Always Welcome
Incorporating family jewellery adds sentimental value and “something old” or “something borrowed” to your ensemble.
4. Coordinate Metals
Match your jewellery metal to your dress color:
- White gowns with silver or platinum
- Ivory with gold
- Blush tones with rose gold
For the Groom
1. Keep It Classic
Subtle pieces like cufflinks, a watch, or a minimalist bracelet add polish without drawing attention away from the suit.
2. Personal Touches
Tie pins, family rings, or custom cufflinks can add meaningful, personalized flair.
3. Match the Bride (Subtly)
Coordinate metal colors or motifs if wearing matching accessories or wedding bands.
For Bridesmaids
1. Follow the Bride’s Lead
Brides often gift jewellery to their bridal party to ensure a unified look. If not, keep it simple and in line with the wedding’s theme and colors.
2. Don’t Outshine the Bride
Opt for delicate pieces that complement the dress without drawing attention away from the bride.
3. Stick to One Metal Tone
Choosing the same metal (gold, silver, rose gold) across the bridal party creates cohesion.
For Guests
1. Respect the Dress Code
If the event is black-tie, bring out more formal pieces like diamond studs or a classic pearl necklace. For casual weddings, stick to understated, elegant designs.
2. Don’t Wear Anything Flashier Than the Bride
Avoid overly bold statement jewellery that could detract from the wedding party’s spotlight.
3. Less Is More
One or two well-chosen accessories usually do the trick. Let your jewellery enhance your outfit—not dominate it.
General Tips for Everyone
- Comfort Matters: Choose pieces that won’t irritate you after hours of dancing and mingling.
- Secure Your Jewellery: Make sure clasps and backs are tight to avoid losing precious pieces.
- Avoid Noisy Accessories: Loud bangles or jangly earrings can be distracting, especially during ceremonies.
Final Thoughts: Shine With Subtlety and Grace
Jewellery should highlight your beauty and respect the spirit of the day—not steal the show. By following a few simple etiquette rules, you’ll ensure that your sparkle feels elegant, appropriate, and thoughtfully chosen, no matter your role in the celebration. After all, weddings are about love and connection—and your accessories should reflect that joy with every shimmer and shine.
